I'm in pain. I had a tubal ligation yesterday, aka, got my "tubes tied". I had the laproscopic surgery where they make two small inscisions in my abdomen. One is for the laproscopic camera and the other to go in with the instruments to clamp my tubes with something called "filshie clips".
So, early in June I had a pregnancy scare. Totally unfounded as my husband and I are always careful to use protection (condoms). However, I was positive that my period was late and that I was having early pregnancy symptoms. It was soooo nerve wracking. I've never gotten pregnant before unless I wanted to be, but I've heard far too many stories of other people getting pregnant all the while swearing up and down that they were on the pill or using condoms. Anyway, long story short I was not pregnant and my dear "friend" showed up with a vengence. I promptly called the OB/GYN that my family doctor referred me to oh way back in January, lol. He booked me in for my surgery and now it's all quickly becoming history. :)
Having the pregnancy scare really showed me beyond a shadow of a doubt that I don't want anymore kids. We struggle as it is and I feel as though we need to focus on our family as it is now. I have NO desire to go back to pregnancy and baby land. I'm still trying to wean my youngest of the breast for goodness sakes and he'll be 3 in October, lol. He's now 24 hours without nursing. (yay!)
My husband wasn't in total agreement with my getting the surgery but, deep down he knows that this is the most responsible thing to do. Also, this will be good for him because I'll be more um..er.."willing" knowing that no accidents will be happening. I can honestly say I'm glad I've done this.
I just can't wait to get back to my normal self. I've got housework to do...
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